Give Me the Slower Version, Please

“But that would take so much time!” she protested in response to my having walked her and her partner through the intentional set-up of healthy relational dialogue. And in my direct, no bullshit way I respond, “And so? Why is that a problem? Make the time! What more...

The Seasons of Grief

If grieving were as easy as three simple steps! But somehow, in its madness, having a life vest to ride the wave, an understanding that there is a sequence, we might feel more grounded in a groundless reality. I have broken down the grief stages into a metaphor of the...