Relational vs. Intimate

Relational vs. Intimate

Is being relational the same thing as being intimate? Someone asked this great question in my training group this week. First off, you do know me enough by now to know that being intimate is not about sex. Sex is sex. Intimacy is about emotional connection. Being...

Article: But, It Just Didn’t Work!?

Huh?  Okay.  On one level, I get it.  You found out that he’s a narcissist, of the pathological type.  Or, she came out of the closet and prefers women to men.  Or, his addiction to alcohol, or sex, or gambling is unrelenting.  And most importantly, he or she...

More Than Love

I heard something recently that was just too good not to share with you: Love me enough to have more than loving feelings toward me. Love me enough to feel safe enough with me and in our relationship to not hold back.  Love me enough to tell me exactly what you are...

Aricle: The Candy Man Can

I can recall how it smelt. Even before entering the door, the scent engulfed my senses. I swear, it was a nasal orgasm. Not to mention the color, the selection and the opportunity for pleasure. The place was no bigger than a large closet. But when I was there, I...