by Ginger Sullivan | May 11, 2019 | Emotional Health, Relational Intimacy, Relationships
… Without sacrificing one for the other. For if I hide me, then at best I am codependent. At worst, I am suicidal – metaphorically – meaning that I am nowhere to be found in my relationship. If it’s all about me and I don’t give a shit...
by Ginger Sullivan | Mar 26, 2019 | Relational Intimacy, Relationships
Is being relational the same thing as being intimate? Someone asked this great question in my training group this week. First off, you do know me enough by now to know that being intimate is not about sex. Sex is sex. Intimacy is about emotional connection. Being...
by Ginger Sullivan | Feb 14, 2017 | Relational Intimacy
Thank you for the question: How do I figure out what the thing is for me that is holding me back from intimacy and deeper relationships and how to start working on that thing? Dear Reader – I offer two speculations of what might be holding you back from intimacy...
by Ginger Sullivan | Oct 29, 2015 | Emotional Health, Relational Intimacy
I heard something recently that was just too good not to share with you: Love me enough to have more than loving feelings toward me. Love me enough to feel safe enough with me and in our relationship to not hold back. Love me enough to tell me exactly what you are...
by Ginger Sullivan | Oct 9, 2015 | Relational Intimacy
What now? The long-awaited “fix.” I wish it were that easy. But as you imagined, it is not. Like most worthwhile ventures, it takes work. And time. And work over time. While my recommendations are not comprehensive by any means, I hope they will highlight the...
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