… Without sacrificing one for the other.

For if I hide me, then at best I am codependent. At worst, I am suicidal – metaphorically – meaning that I am nowhere to be found in my relationship.

If it’s all about me and I don’t give a shit about you, well … that’s a narcissist’s heyday. We certainly don’t want to be in that nightmare.

So, we are left to constantly balance the two. Coming on stage in my fullest self while being sensitive of the impact I am having on my partner and our connection. We are forever course-correcting to live in both worlds. Like Goldilocks, not too hard. Not too soft. Justtttt right.

For the rise of your life …