Stop looking at your neighbor’s yard. You have your own damn lawn to mow.
If you keep peering over the fence, you will not only neglect your own grass, but you will make up in your head that they have something you don’t. That their grass doesn’t grow weeds. That they got luckier. That they are more worthy or lovable. That life is out to get you. Etc. Etc.
The result is the same. Your yard ends up mediocre and miserable.
I say go all in. Once you’ve made a decision, take what you have and make everything you have out of it. Can you find a better yard, spouse, child, house, career, life? I bet you can. And, you will never know what you can do with what you have until you are fully committed.
Compare or commit. What will it be?
For the rise of your life …