The Frog and the Scorpion

You remember the story of the frog and the scorpion? The scorpion asks the frog for a ride across the river. “But you are a scorpion,” says the frog. “You will sting me.” “No, I won’t,” promised the scorpion. “I will be the perfect gentleman if you kindly give me a...

The Four Corners of the Relationship Grid

I am grateful to my mentor, Terry Real, for providing the frame of the information I am about to share with you. I have taken his work and expanded upon it but thanks to his great wisdom, he provides a blueprint to determine our “relational edge” which...