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A View From the Top: What the Center of Health Might Look Like
I can't say I really know from experience. But theoretically, with a few touchstones along the way, I will lay out my vision of what it just might look like to have most of my shit in one sock. Not perfectly, of course. Hell, that would be too boring and most...
Article: But, It Just Didn’t Work!?
Huh? Okay. On one level, I get it. You found out that he's a narcissist, of the pathological type. Or, she came out of the closet and prefers women to men. Or, his addiction to alcohol, or sex, or gambling is unrelenting. And most importantly, he or she doesn't...
More Than Love
I heard something recently that was just too good not to share with you: Love me enough to have more than loving feelings toward me. Love me enough to feel safe enough with me and in our relationship to not hold back. Love me enough to tell me exactly what you are...
Facing Love Addiction, Braving True Intimacy – Part III
What now? The long-awaited “fix.” I wish it were that easy. But as you imagined, it is not. Like most worthwhile ventures, it takes work. And time. And work over time. While my recommendations are not comprehensive by any means, I hope they will highlight the...
Aricle: The Candy Man Can
I can recall how it smelt. Even before entering the door, the scent engulfed my senses. I swear, it was a nasal orgasm. Not to mention the color, the selection and the opportunity for pleasure. The place was no bigger than a large closet. But when I was there, I...
Reflection: Come Autumn
Come, autumn. Relieve me of the swelter. Awaken my senses to your brilliant offerings. Soothe me with the predictability of the school schedule. Wrap me in bulky sweaters, keeping me warm and safe as if the arms of a timeworn lover. Hide my toes and my fingers in...
Facing Love Addiction, Braving True Intimacy – Part II
Last month, we defined exactly what a love addict is. In this segment, we get curious. How and why does one become a love addict? The causes of love addiction are fairly easy to identify. Throughout one's development, there is usually some semblance of abandonment -...
Facing Love Addiction, Braving True Intimacy – Part I
Imagine being lost at sea ... without a raft or even a piece of driftwood to hold onto. No land is in sight. Neither is the luxury liner that left you behind. It is just you, treading in the dark ocean waters that threaten to drown you. You are going nowhere fast....
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