by Ginger Sullivan | Oct 30, 2019 | Emotional Health, Relational Intimacy, Relationships
Your partner expects defense. They speak words of unhappiness and the natural response is self-protection. Ego over relationship every time. Yet, ironically, if your ego is stable and the relationship is important to you, you can throw your partner off – in a good...
by Ginger Sullivan | Oct 16, 2019 | Aging, Relationships
I’ve lived five decades and never knew that the word “DECIDE” has the root ending from French -cide which derived from Latin -cida (“cutter, killer”), from casedo (“cut, kill”). Game changer. When we make a decision, we are engaging in the action of “cutting or...
by Ginger Sullivan | Oct 2, 2019 | Emotional Health, Relational Intimacy, Relationships
Frontwards, not backwards. Love yourself so that you pick a partner that can love you back. Sounds good. And, it’s more complicated than that. Remember, it takes people to heal us and people to hurt us. So, get yourself around healing people that will help you...
by Ginger Sullivan | Sep 27, 2019 | Relationships
As my journey as a psychotherapist took me more and more into the relationship world, I simultaneously became more of a geek. I have embraced my inner scientist. Show me the data. Collect it over time. Look for patterns, systems, trends that will give both...
by Ginger Sullivan | Sep 23, 2019 | Emotional Health, Uncategorized
I knew it was a bit dangerous and hence, stupid. Setting an alarm on vacation. Heading to the mountain solo at daybreak. They do warn you in full font size – “You are entering a natural habitat for large wildlife – bears, elk and moose. Carry bear spray.” Of...
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